Break even

Funny enough im a break even trader right now, im green total but something really holding me back is my trade management, i collect lots of data watch trades play out all the time im a higher rr trader. But for some reason in my mind i always wanna set BE fast or have a smaller stop or just trail way to aggressive once i see alittle conslidation. I know this is like all mental but just wondering on tips to stop this, not scared to enter the trades or anything but once im in its a whole different battle, hardest thing for me is alot of my data shows smaller stops but a 20-30 point stop on NQ a year or 2 ago is totally different then these markets. (abit over a year into trading now seen some profit and shitty months)